My weekend was once again uneventful. I am off work on Fridays, so I have a 3 day weekend every week. There are some weekends where I have something planned every day, but there are far too many weekends I sit at home alone. I am okay being a single woman about 80% of the time, but the other 20% can be lonely. I am not a person that needs to be doing something all the time, but when I want to do something and I have no one to do it with, it's frustrating. I had to work for a little on Friday and then I spent all day on Saturday at training. I just wanted to go out and do something Saturday, but all my plans fell through.
You spend most of your life time building friendships that will last. I have many close friends and have only gained more now that all but one have husbands. In high school and college I valued my guy friends as much as my girl friends, but when the guys got married I never talked to them again. Odd, I wonder why? Although I still maintain my close friendships, it is different now that they are married with kids. I am always the 3rd wheel, and bless my friends hearts they continue to invite me out with them. I enjoying hanging out with them, but there are sometimes it would be nice to have someone there for me, besides their children. On the slight chance my friends can ditch the husband, they still bring the kids. I love all my friends kids and I am blessed to have all of them in my life.
Doesn't prince charming know I am sitting on the couch and he can knock on my door anytime. I would like to join the rest of my friends and find a significant other, or at least some new guy friends that wouldn't mind hanging out with my friends. I don't know to many guys right now that I would trust with my close friends or their children. Although I am not sure I want a husband, remember I enjoy my alone time. I wish I could be a serial dater, but for some reason it is not in my personality. I am a rather boring person, I don't live the party lifestyle, I don't generally hang out at bars or clubs, and I am a bit of a homebody. I enjoy the "normal" things in life like, movies, concerts, and sporting events. I do get a chance to do a lot of those things , but I have found they are not good places to meet guys. I notice most of them already have dates, and it might be weird to ask them on a date! Thus, the problem of meeting prince charming. The search continues...or I might throw in the towel and start collecting cats! What ever works!!
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Okay lady, you need to check out the 'Kiss My A Allison' blog from my page and then you need to call me next time you get bored. My kis are gone half the time an dmy husband is a work a holic!
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